How do they know?

Kids are sponges! Vibes, germs, swear words… if you’re giving them out they’ll absorb them and use it against you.

A friend recently started a new job; Very exciting for mama but a bit daunting.. you know, normal first day jitters, and of course her kiddos played up at daycare drop off.

She messaged our group saying “ugh how do they know!?” and I was like: babe, I don’t know how they know BUT THEY KNOW.

It’s true: you can get up each day, put your big girl undies on and use your mum voice all you like, but if you have one ounce of self doubt? Your kids will exploit you for that like you’ve just shoplifted a lip gloss and you don’t want the ‘rents to find out.

So how do you get confidence as a Mum?  Well that’s a hard one… but here are a few things that helped me in the end.

Baby number I. Don’t be fooled by that smile.. I was in the depths of self doubt at this stage
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